Business Tips • 10 min read
You drove 40 minutes across town, measured up, talked through the job, went home and wrote the quote that night - and never heard back. Turns out they were never going to book. They were just kicking tyres. Here's how to filter those people out before they cost you a single hour.
Not every enquiry is a customer. A tyre-kicker is someone who'll happily take an hour of your time, a free quote, and your expert opinion - with no real intention (or ability) to ever go ahead. They're "just getting an idea," shopping a dozen quotes, or fishing for a number to beat someone else down with. And they're everywhere.
The trap is thinking the cost is just the quote. It isn't. It's the drive out, the parking, the measure-up, the chat in the driveway, and the hour at the kitchen table that night writing it all up. Worse, it's the genuine job you couldn't get to because you were busy chasing a ghost.
The Real Cost:
A single unqualified site visit can eat 2-3 hours once you count travel, measuring, and writing the quote. Do three of those a week and that's the better part of a full day - unpaid - spent on people who were never going to book. Over a year, that's six weeks of your life given away to tyre-kickers.
Every hour you spend on a time-waster is an hour you're not quoting a real job, or worse, an hour the phone rings out and a paying customer calls the next tradie on the list. If you've never put a number on it, our missed call cost calculator shows you exactly what your time and your missed calls are worth - and it's almost always more than tradies think.
Qualifying happens on the phone, before you ever get in the ute. Two minutes of questions on the first call saves you hours on the road. These four questions do almost all of the heavy lifting.
You're not interrogating anyone. You're being a professional. Genuine customers respect a tradie who asks sharp questions - it signals you've done this a hundred times. Tyre-kickers, on the other hand, tend to dodge, deflect, or get cagey when you ask anything specific. That reaction is your answer.
Keep this list in the back of your mind on every first call. None of these are crimes on their own, but they add up fast.
Red Flags to Watch For:
One flag on its own isn't a deal-breaker - plenty of good customers are just nervous, or new to hiring trades and don't know the etiquette. But three or more? Trust your gut. You've seen this person before, and you know how it ends.
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Charging for quotes is one of the most divisive topics among tradies. Here's the honest answer: it depends entirely on the type of job.
A $150-$300 quoting or assessment fee does two jobs at once. It filters out tyre-kickers instantly - genuine buyers will happily pay it, while time-wasters vanish - and it pays you for hours you'd otherwise give away for free.
The trick that makes it an easy sell: credit the fee back against the job if they go ahead. Now it costs the real customer nothing, and it only ever stings the people who were never going to book. If you want a deeper framework for pricing the work itself, our guide on how to price tradie services walks through margins, markup, and not leaving money on the table.
If you take one thing from this article, make it this. A deposit is the clearest line in the sand between a customer and a tyre-kicker. Someone who's genuinely going ahead has no problem putting money down. Someone who's just kicking tyres will suddenly go very, very quiet.
A deposit policy isn't about distrust - it's about commitment, from both sides. The customer commits to the job; you commit to the date. And the people who refuse to commit a cent? They've just qualified themselves out and saved you a wasted Saturday morning.
Sometimes you'll qualify a lead and realise it's just not worth your time - too small, too far, too much hassle, or a tyre-kicker who's failed every red-flag test. You don't have to say yes. But how you say no matters: today's tyre-kicker can become tomorrow's referral if you handle it like a pro. Here are three scripts you can lift word-for-word.
"Thanks for thinking of me. Honestly, this one's not really in my wheelhouse - you'd be better off with a specialist. I'd give [name / trade] a try. Best of luck with it."
Why it works: Honest, helpful, and you've handed them somewhere to go. No awkwardness, no burnt bridge - and you might just earn a referral back one day.
"Appreciate you reaching out. I'm booked solid for the next few weeks, so my rate for a job like this would be around $X. If that works for your timeline and budget, happy to lock it in - otherwise no stress."
Why it works: You haven't said no - you've priced it on your terms. Real customers will pay for quality and wait their turn. Tyre-kickers disqualify themselves, and you keep your evening.
"Happy to take a proper look and put together a quote - that's a paid call-out of $X, which comes straight off the job if you go ahead. Want me to book you a time?"
Why it works: Politely shuts down the "can you just tell me what's wrong" freebie hunters while leaving the door wide open for genuine customers.
Notice that none of these are rude. You're firm, you're professional, and you're protecting your time. The goal was never to be harsh - it's to make sure the only people getting on your calendar are the ones worth your while.
After enough calls, you'll spot the difference in the first 30 seconds. Here's the cheat sheet.
| Signal | Tyre-Kicker | Genuine Buyer |
|---|---|---|
| Timeframe | "No rush, just looking" | "Need it done by [date]" |
| First question | "How much do you charge?" | "When can you come take a look?" |
| Other quotes | Collecting as many as possible | Choosing between two or three |
| Deposit | Pushes back or goes quiet | Pays without hesitation |
| Job detail | Vague, scope keeps changing | Clear on what they want |
| Decision-maker | "I'll have to ask..." | Ready to decide |
The four questions and the red-flag checklist work - but only if you actually use them on every lead. That's hard when you're up a ladder, hands full, and the phone is ringing out. This is where a system, or something that answers and qualifies for you, changes everything.
An AI receptionist or a structured intake process can ask your qualifying questions on every single call, capture the answers, and flag the genuine buyers - so by the time a lead reaches you, it's already been filtered. You spend your evenings quoting real jobs, not chasing ghosts.
And for the qualified leads that still go quiet after you've quoted, don't write them off - they're usually just busy, not gone. A proper quote follow-up system sorts the busy-but-keen from the never-going-to-book, and turns more of your good quotes into paid work without a single awkward phone call.
Tyre-kickers aren't going anywhere. There will always be people fishing for free advice, collecting a dozen quotes, or "just having a look." The difference between a stressed tradie and a profitable one isn't who attracts fewer time-wasters - it's who filters them out faster.
Ask the four questions on every first call. Watch for the red flags. Charge for the quotes that deserve it, take a deposit on every job, and learn to say no like a professional. Do that, and your calendar fills up with people who actually want to pay you - while the tyre-kickers quietly move on to bother someone else.
Your time is the one thing you can't get back. Stop giving it away for free.
Full disclosure: MethodisAI builds AI call answering and lead qualification tools for trade businesses, including automated intake that asks your qualifying questions and flags genuine buyers for plumbers, electricians, builders, and more. But every strategy in this article works regardless of which tools you use.
See how MethodisAI answers every call, qualifies the lead, and books only the genuine jobs into your calendar - so you spend your time on work that pays.